13 effective ways to win a girl’s heart

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13 effective ways to win a girl’s heart


You’ve found that special one and you want her to be yours but you don’t know what to do, how to start, and who to run to. Yes! I just used the word “run to” because actually it’s an emergency issue; you won’t be the only one trying, so you’ve got to strive for what you want. To do that, read and be guided by the following strategies.

1. First and foremost be “YOU”

Do you think girls love when you fake it? Not at all. The truth is, you can’t keep up with it, and when they get to discover, you have ruined it all. There’s nothing like being real and making a girl love you for who you are. You won’t have to go through all that stress living a fake life and you will have that peace of mind that she loves you for real. But if you decide to be fake and claim who you are not and you think you’ve won her heart, my dear sorry, but you’ve not because she doesn’t love you but the fake you. So being real matters a lot.

2. Take things slowly by being a good friend first

Some guys just feel the best way to win her heart is just barging in. If so, you got it all wrong; the best way is to be friends with her first. Be that person that can tell her where she’s wrong notwithstanding her reaction, one that can play with her like a brother, joke her, tease her, have quarrels and at the same time forgive each other.

This will make her rely on you greatly and in most cases her feelings for you will grow very fast to the extent she would wish you two were more than friends. During this time, you are also using the avenue to study the kind of person she is, if really she’s good for you, all depends on your observations and findings.

3. Be confident 


Take it or leave it, one thing that attracts her to you is your confidence. When you are the sluggish and dull type, you are doing yourself no good because you won’t be able to express yourself, but when you are an embodiment of confidence you can express yourself and speak up for yourself as this is a plus to winning her heart. 

4. Have a great sense of creativity 

Guys listen up, being creative is not making some awkward move or bathing her with gifts just to impress her or even using your bank account to please her. No! Learn to think outside the box which is not trying to do what other men do to impress a lady. Do things that no one has done before, put up your thought into your date so you will make her feel special and different from every other girl. 

5. Be jovial 

Girls love jovial guys, who are full of humour, free and humble to the core. They motivate them and get them close to you. Be free to have that fun you want to have with her. Make her laugh; show her that with you there is never a dull moment. This will make her go fond of you and free with you. 

6. Add her to your priority list

Yea! Sure make her a priority, while you at work make a call to check on her. Let her know even at work you have her in mind. When you come back from work, connect with her and tell her how work went. Make sacrifices for her. 

7. Take her unawares by surprises

I assure you she’s so going to love it. Surprise her with the things she loves. Let me give out a little trick, try to study her closely by knowing that colour she loves through the clothes she wears or asks her about the things she loves, her favourite meal, her favourite colour, places she loves going and so on.

She might just think you are asking because you want to know her better. But just think of this, how do you think she will feel when you get her that nice purple gown? Hmm! she’s not going to only love it but she’s going to love you because that was a pretty gown with her favourite colour. She might even forget she once told you her favourite colour, but you did remember which a plus is. 


8. Be caring

Girls love it when they are treated like a queen. You love her so much and you want her to be happy always, do things that will make her feel special. Check on her often, make sacrifices, and shower her with surprises as said previously. Show her you mean what you are doing and that you are damn serious about her, be nice to her, share her problems, encourage and motivate her often. Even when you are out of the country or the state, show her she’s always in your heart by calling or texting her often. 

9. Be financially capable 

Yes I won’t put this out; it’s not that some ladies do love money a lot. No! What they love is you being industrious and capable of working. You must have the cash to make her feel special but spend responsibly and not foolishly. There’s no way a lady will settle for a lazy partner, who can’t secure themselves financially. So tell me, if you can’t secure yourself financially, how can you secure her?

10. Make your family her friends

If really you are true and you serious about her, you won’t fail to create a good relationship between her and your family members. 

11. Make her miss you

At times be available that’s when you have at least make her go fond of you and some other times be less available, this will make her wonder why you’ve not shown up or called for some time, and definitely she will be forced to make the calls to ask how you do and your reasons for not calling or checking up on her. Good news is, she just called to tell you she’s missing you! 

12. Be good looking and a classic man

Dress the way you want to be addressed doesn’t just apply to the ladies alone but the guys also. If you dress in an indecent manner like what is known as the “Agbero dressing” don’t just bother to approach her because she won’t even give you a chance. Trust me on this. Your appearance and the way you look are a very strong tool and a great contribution of winning her over. So always dress smart and classic. Have your hair look neat, have nice skin. The result is, she will long after you.  

13. Be romantic

Yes! It’s part of the Strategy. Be romantic, have a strong knowledge of being romantic. Don’t just be good at other things without being romantic. Make that move by doing something that would take her by surprise. Girls love guys who are so romantic. Wow! I know you know how to do this well. Feel free to drop your comments on this and don’t forget to use the share buttons.

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